Tuesday, September 16, 2008

"Do I believe we'd be better off apart? Can I see my world without you in it, baby not for one single minute"

The other day I was reading about someone's thoughts on marriage, and in reflecting on her own marriage the author stated, "We do not sacrifice for one another, but come together in a mutual exchange..."I thought this was so interesting. In my limited experience, marriage includes sacrifice... now dont get me wrong I really do love being married to Brian (your brother, brother-in-law, grandson etc) but I have to admit that sometimes there are things that i would not do, eat, watch, participate in if it was not important to him. I think that every couple makes sacrifices for one another, even if it is over small things like me making dinner instead of serving microwave popcorn (which is what i actually want to eat), or him getting up 15 minutes earlier in order to take me to class so i dont have to walk every SINGLE day. I wholeheartedly subscribe to the idea that marriage requires both people to give 100% (not 50%), this concept guarantees that there will be sacrifices on the part of both people. I really think that these sacrfices, no matter how small make us stronger and more selfless, and let's face it I need anything that can help me down that road.

2 comments:

Lisa said...

Brian is a great guy and you did very well! I agree that marriage is hard work that takes 100% from both sides. And it is worth every one of those hard days to get to all the wonderful days in between.

Jason and Mike said...

You make me smile Ashley :)